While searching at Slavic dating site many men tend to forget or simply do not care of the women's negative experiences in Poltava dating. As a rule, what we hear is a guy, who was scammed, but quite often a lady falls foul of a Western man.
Imagine a typical scenario. A Western guy registers at Slavic dating site. He looks for a beautiful woman as all men do, many makes an assumption that every woman in Ukraine or any other former Soviet Union country is desperate to marry any foreign gentleman to escape the low economic life style she leads at the moment. The man gets attracted to a girl and they start mingling, sometimes for a week, sometimes a few weeks or months, it depends. By this time the man may have taken a decision this lady is the one he was searching for, he wants to tell her he plans to meet her and is ready for marriage.
The lady is not ready to take such an important step so fast for whatsoever reason. The man, shocked and furious she is not ready to follow his plans, thinks she is a scammer and reports her to the agency telling this lady has never been serious about him. Unfortunately, this is a very well-spread story that happens to thousands of Poltava ladies when they date on-line and the worst what can be is the man would add her profile on scammers black list not even leaving her a chance to look for her family happiness with another man or with another on-line dating service. Besides, it is a very unpleasant thing for a lady to see her name all over the internet on the scammer’s list. Is it really a fair reaction of a true gentleman?! How should a weak woman bear this?
Statistics shows that gentlemen are happy to spend money on movies, flowers, restaurants, dating sites charges to find a perfect match both at local or international dating site. However, when it comes to Slavic dating sites, the men don’t hesitate to label women on these sites ‘gold diggers’ and scammers. Why? This happens due to the misconception of mail-order-bride thing. Many men consider that women, whom they chat an exchange e-mails with owe them for the costs that they have spent on the site. Many men live with the old and wrong vision that Poltava brides are an easy target and that they can be bought for a few dollars that they spend on gifts and flowers. Remember that this doesn’t guarantee you will win your lady’s heat and she would be ready to move to your country and marry you right away. This also doesn’t guarantee your happy family life after.
The clue of the happy and harmonious relationship lays in chemistry, compatibility and common wish of both parties to work on the relationship and its development. Otherwise, it will never work. Love cannot be forced, it should appear and grow naturally and not on your demand. All you can do is adding to it, making it more romantic and pleasurable for both of you.
Ukraine is nor longer a communist country, even though this can be a shocking news to many Western gentlemen, many women make great career and have well-paid jobs, they are not looking just to leave their country their family and friends just with the first guy, hp gets on their way showing has got several dollars or Euros.
When it comes to the fees Western men pay to the dating sites services, they no way guarantee the men would get the women they want – the se women are not slaves and in no way desperate. A man should win a woman’s heart like at any dating site and will have to court his woman as he would do in his homeland and in the case of Ukraine try even more, since these ladies are used to traditional way of courtship. Even if you follow all this, then nobody can provide you a guarantee she will be yours. However, if you succeed in winning her heart over, you will be a happy family man.