Always remember that every girl likes to be special. Every girl will appreciate your efforts that you take up to win her heart. Even simple things such as sending a letter or a card every week can work wonders! Never be shy to show your interest in the lady you like and start as good friends. Remember that women like insistent men.
Be smart and even when you receive a negative response, suggest the lady you are interested in to stay friends and act. You will get a new chance for her to change mind and show your romantic side with time. Photographs are a good means of getting to know each other, however, when used correctly. When selecting photos for exchange, make sure they are interesting, show you in the best light and those that are recent, for sure. It doesn’t make sense to send pictures with every letter if they are the same or nearly the same. Make sure pictures are interesting and provide a better picture of your life: work, leisure, etc.
If you plan to visit a Russian woman in her country, you need to let her know this to show you have serious intentions and not corresponding with her out of boredom.
You can start calling the girl via phone after a couple of letters. Calling is also possible after the initial letter, but you need to inform the lady you will call. Ensure she will remember your name. When talking over the phone use simple language and speak slowly as understanding of a foreign language speakers more complicated than face to face.
Phone you lady frequently and listen to her voice attentively. By doing so you can realize if the lady is truly interested in getting to know you better, if she is enthusiastic about the development of your relationship. Pay attention on how she answers your questions. Are her replies short? And does she ask you questions? If your lady doesn’t speak English, you can use conference call services, but you will need to talk to her so that she feels your genuine interest.
A decisive impact to your relationship can be sending flowers or gifts option. This way you can show her how much you care about her and make her feel special on occasions such as: New Year’s Eve, 8th of March, birthday, Valentine’s Day, etc. If this option is too expensive for you, you can always send a greeting card by airmail to make your Russian lady feel special.
Meanwhile, don’t try to impress your Russian bride by only sending her gifts. It is very nice to feel special receiving tokens of attention and presents, but don’t hope she will prefer you to another guy, just because you sent her expensive gifts and flowers.
Be romantic, be inventive and offer a lady what she really needs and expects from you. Thus, sending her a 25$ English lessons book can be a more appreciated gift than 100$ flowers. However, it is better to avoid offering the ladies money as they can think you are trying to buy their affection.
Ladies, as well as you, can have dozens of correspondents, so after several letters you may ask her how she feels about you. Never hesitate to ask questions you have directly. If you have doubts, never waste your time or lady’s. Try to make your choice as quickly as possible!