Selfishness is one of the qualities that people posses, but don’t want to see in other people. A bit of selfishness is ok in every human being, but what if selfishness is the main reason why this amazing Russian beauty is talking to you on one of the Russian dating web services? How to understand if the lady you are talking to is with you not by her selfish interests and is not a “gold digger” or a “profit seeker”? No one would be happy to fall a victim of on-line dating fraud or scam. People normally hate to be taken advantage of, be left broken-hearted and simply waste their time, efforts and money. Many men ask for hints or rules to follow not to run into a selfish Russian woman. No one can provide you the rules to follow that would be the guarantee against on-line scammers. Why? The answer is simple. We are all people, we are unique, inventive and scammers, unfortunately, belong to our rows too.
However, you can still detect selfishness of a woman you are talking to and stop your communication. When reading woman’s profile and letters, make sure you don’t see too much “I” in her writings. If you do, then most likely this Russian girl is selfish. If she doesn’t ask you questions, is not interested in your personality, life work, etc., she doesn’t reveal much about her life, forgets to congratulate you on occasions, especially on your birthday (if it is mentioned in your profiles or letters), etc. it is a red flag this woman is following her own profit from correspondence with you.
If you notice your Russian bride requires too much from you: flowers, gifts, money, etc, but does very little on her part (not talking much over the phone, chat, doesn’t write letters frequently, doesn’t express much gratefulness when receiving gifts, is not mutual in the expression of her feelings and emotions, then you can be 100 % sure, she is a scammer.
If your on-line communication, phone conversations, chats, were a great experience, but during your face to face meeting you notice a woman is cold with you, doesn’t behave as in her letters and on-line communication; you don’t feel tenderness, affection, attention from her; your dates are cold, short and what you mostly do is shopping, going to restaurants, nights clubs travel together to great resorts, buying expensive things, then you have fallen into the trap of a professional scammer. Listen to your common sense and gut feeling and run away as soon as possible to save your funds and heart from being broken.